I wanted to be stronger, so I wish I could say that I started weightlifting. I can say that I have reached the ultimate enlightenment and separation from the shape of my body, but its weight and size are nothing but numbers. Not only was I not afraid to be bulky, but I hope I accepted it and wanted it. I only wanted to go through the door sideways, so I wanted to get into the shoulders and biceps of the room first. Actually, I just wanted the abdominal muscles. I wanted to be smaller. I also wanted to make all of this easy, but all the other workouts I tried have become endlessly difficult.
The intensity interval failed for me. The 7 minute training was too difficult and not enough. I didn’t want to do Pilates, Barre or Yoga anymore. Every form of exercise I tried promised me bliss and control, and promised that I didn’t have to think too much about how to control my body and its weight and size. I realized that this was not only a lie, but the opposite of the truth. The more I did, the more resentful I didn’t do enough, and any training seemed less effective. I didn’t know what options I had other than pushing myself harder.
I’ve been a runner for about seven years and hoped that one day I’d be able to run enough to show my abdominal muscles and associated self-assurance. I had to run a few minutes at a time, then wind, run for 15 minutes at a time, then 3 miles, then 5 miles, and then a half marathon. I ate a stupid little low calorie meal. I learned the calorie counts of certain foods, such as bananas, slices of toast, and half a cup of carrots, until I could recite them like the alphabet. My thirst was very strong as I had to think about avoiding pasta, cookies and candies and not eating all the time I was awake. At first I felt like a witch when I saw the pound drop immediately. Then they started to descend slowly and even more slowly. It was much colder. Even a space heater pointed directly at your feet couldn’t keep your toes warm. I couldn’t afford a second space heater for my finger. I wasn’t even thinking about giving up from a distance. For me, failure could only be the result of not working hard enough. Doctors have never expressed concern about me, my obsession with body fat, low blood pressure, or the need to wear a scarf all the time.
In the end, I kept digging holes, thinking that I would unleash both “balance” and self-confidence. But I was finally able to go beyond the biological capabilities of my body and do more. I was always sweating and couldn’t get to where I was happy to eat raw vegetables. Instead, I was left with only a few “good” foods fed and miles of aerobic exercise that was unleashed forever, like a clown unwinding a silk scarf from his mouth.
I’ve learned a lot about muscles for years to understand what really happened to me, but I’ll explain: if I eat hard and long enough, my body To reveal my muscles below, which I always thought the fat would melt. What I didn’t realize was that if I was on a diet too aggressively for too long, my muscles would also wear out. This not only searched for muscles that became more and more difficult to find, but also biologically weakened me. My muscles kept my metabolism high, so the less diets I had, the less effective all diets were. My muscles also allowed my body to function basically — moving around and feeling better. I couldn’t see my muscles affected. This was probably the most insidious part of the diet industry’s weight loss promises. That vicious circle would have kept me on a calorie-restricted treadmill forever.
One day in 2014, I was still looking for a new way to hurt my body, but I stumbled across an old viral Reddit post detailing a woman’s “six months of weightlifting progress.” ..I had a constant curiosity about what the activity was conduct To the female body, and I’ve always heard that “weightlifting makes you bulky.” But if anything, her picture showed that she was small, her hips were lifted, her abdominal muscles were slightly visible, and her arms were tighter. Magic? magic? A special £ 2 dumbbell? A new type of crunch or plank? No, do three weightlifting movements a day (squats or deadlifts, presses or benches, dips or pull-ups) three times a week. She ate as much as she could. “There is no aerobic exercise,” she said many times in comments. “You are hot!” Commented another redditors. “Thank you, but this is mainly about how I feel,” she replied.
I used the “energy consumption calculator” I found on sub Reddit to look up my statistics. It is a calculation of the amount of food needed to run a strength-building program. I was confused by the result. It was completely 50 percent more than I had eaten most of my adulthood. Nothing has been calculated for my low calorie, high heart brain. However, I was in a cycle of eating less and exercising just to keep my weight back in place. The only thing left was to throw it all in the opposite direction.
As a rule, I burned the concept of aerobic exercise and diet and never wanted to look back, but my icicle fingers became clumsy thinking of actually giving up on it all. I was even more nervous when I didn’t even sweat after the initial training on squats, deadlifts and overhead presses. I hovered over the gym door and felt unqualified to leave without any effort, such as fatigue and tingling of muscle cramps. But within 45 minutes, I felt hungry like never before and went to Bodega to get a lot of food from the shelves, including protein shakes, candy bars, and vitamin water (protein shakes, candy bars, vitamin water). I wiped it out.When Sugar, thank you), hot cheetos of flamin, bacon, eggs and cheese in a roll, sitting in bed and eating everything.
I was very afraid to let go of the “burning calories”, fearing that all the weight I fought to lose would come back in a hurry. But one of the central principles of lifting was that you needed to store your energy and not spread yourself too thinly. Before the 30 minute lift, I stopped running until the 5 minute warm-up was limited around the block. Annoyed by the vision of pound sterling, I waited awkwardly during the rest days when my muscles seemed to be repairing themselves with calories and protein. I told myself to give it to the moon, even in the moon I couldn’t get more than a few pounds.
And … nothing happened. Nothing happened except I got stronger. Following the instructions, I added a few pounds to every lift for each session, ate food and took a break. The little muscle I had and accidentally destroyed on a diet was rising from its chaotic feeding grave. I was no longer suffering from a cold. I also ran hot. And it’s easier to move around. I bent, carried groceries, and moved boxes in the storage crawl space under the apartment. And I liked lifting heavy objects. I liked doing it only 5 times at a time. I like sitting in my butt for a minute between sets, walking around the gym, “preparing for the next set” and feeling like I’m running away with something. .. Nothing has changed for the casual observer, but I feel better than ever in my entire life. I didn’t know that I could feel so different.
After two years, eating enough to keep the weight the same and expecting to gain weight from session to session was no longer enough to keep getting stronger. To continue, you need to deliberately eat more, gain weight, and continue to build skeletal muscle. I considered my options. So far, the process of strength hasn’t misleaded me. I was tied to a surplus of calories and ate the equivalent of an extra box of Annie’s macaroni and cheese a day. The new program has added more personnel and sets, and types of movements to grow muscles. Weight training in the gym has skyrocketed, and the frustratingly hard workouts have once again been a blissful moment. I gained another £ 10 and felt like a god. Also, literally, I’ve never felt so confident, proud, or at home in the body I lived in.
Looking back at my photo before I lifted it, my sunken eyes and protruding bones popped out. Previously, I could only see the body that still felt big. I know that person would think I’m fat now, and I don’t even need to know she’s wrong, partly because she hasn’t heard it, Because I know it’s all she has, and now I know there’s a lot more. I thought that “thirst” and “bad” food, and trying to avoid eating as much as possible, was just the fact of the existence of an adult, especially as a female. But when I tried to eat enough to support my lifting, I realized how widely shared, carefully created, and maliciously protected those delusions were. Building back muscles was a much slower process than I’ve ever noticed. Even with the new lifter, one pound of muscle a month was as much as I could expect. When I regained my strength, I realized that I needed to protect whatever I needed. What I lost turned out to be important to the experience of living in my body.
When I first started lifting, other women trying strength training reassured me that “you don’t have to worry about being bulky.” But now it turns out that you don’t have to worry, not because it never happens. I didn’t have to worry because bulkiness is the best part.
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